A Lesson in Every Stitch…

After the birth of my firstborn child, life changed radically, yet beautifully. In those early months, as my baby slept peacefully and I watched his tiny form grow day by day, I wanted to fill those quiet moments with something that would become a lasting reminder of that precious season.
As I decluttered little nooks and crannies to make room for this tiny bundle of joy and the not so tiny space all his belongings seemed to require. I came across a large bag filled with skeins, knots, and little pieces of thread in every possible tint, shade, and hue. Rather than discarding them, I brought out a canvas and a needle and began gently pulling thread and needle through its tiny holes, not quite knowing what would emerge.
Like life itself, this embroidery was created from pieces of leftover yarn that seemed too small to matter. Each thread carried the history of another creation, yet together they began a new story, one of resilience, renewal, and hope.
In those precious, unhurried days of new motherhood, I found myself reaching for what remained rather than what was new. Short lengths of thread, too small for most projects, became the palette from which this tapestry slowly emerged.
One stitch at a time, the fragments found their place. Colours that were never intended to meet blended into a kaleidoscope of unexpected beauty. No single thread tells the whole story, yet together they create something complete and harmonious.
Life has a way of doing the same with us. Our joys and disappointments, our beginnings and endings, our triumphs and our trials may seem like disconnected fragments. Yet, with patience, time, and faith, they are woven into a pattern far richer and more beautiful than we could ever have imagined.
This tapestry reminds me that nothing is ever truly wasted. Every experience leaves behind a thread of wisdom, every challenge adds depth, every season leaves its colour, and every act of love contributes to the masterpiece we are becoming.
Sometimes, the most beautiful creations are not made from what is new, but from what remains woven together with gratitude, purpose, hope, and resilience. Looking at this tapestry today, I no longer see merely leftover threads. I see the quiet joy of early motherhood, the beauty hidden in ordinary moments, and a gentle reminder that, just as these fragments found their place, so too do the seemingly scattered fragments of our own lives

A Detox I Never Signed Up For

It has been six days since my phone and I parted ways.No dramatic farewell. No heartfelt goodbye. One moment it was there, faithfully buzzing, chiming, demanding attention; the next, it wasn’t. I wish I could say I handled the separation with remarkable dignity. Naaaa, I certainly didn’t. I felt like the chick in the story CHICKEN LICKEN. “the sky has fallen down and I’m off to tell the King”

The first day felt oddly like an attack of paralysis. Every few minutes, my hand instinctively reached for a phone that wasn’t there. My pocket felt suspiciously light. I kept wondering who will have texted, who will have called, what urgent piece of news the world had decided I absolutely needed to know. By the way, to my disappointment, the world carried on just fine.

By the second day, something curious began to happen. The silence stopped feeling empty.I realised just how often I had been interrupting my own life. A notification here. A quick glance there. A harmless “I’ll just check one thing…” that somehow turned into twenty minutes of wandering through the digital wilderness.Without my phone, there was nothing to check. So I checked in with myself instead.I noticed birdsong that had probably been there all along. I lingered over a cup of tea without simultaneously scrolling through headlines. Conversations became richer because my attention wasn’t quietly negotiating with a screen. Even waiting in traffic, outside a classroom became something other than an opportunity to disappear into my phone.I simply waited.Imagine that!The detox wasn’t just from a device. It was from urgency. From the illusion that everything demanded an immediate response. From the subtle anxiety of always being available, always informed, always connected.The irony is almost amusing. We carry devices designed to save us time, yet they often consume the very moments they promise to protect.

Don’t get me wrong, I love technology. My phone is a remarkable interface. It connects me to my loved ones, supports my work, answers impossible questions, stores precious photographs, and somehow knows exactly when I need reminding about an appointment I had completely forgotten.But somewhere along the way, the tool quietly became a companion, then a habit, and occasionally an uninvited guest and on many occasions it felt like the oxygen that kept me alive.

But friends, believe me I didnt die and go to heaven. Im still alive and kicking.These six days have reminded me that there is a difference between being connected and being present.Presence cannot be downloaded.Peace doesn’t arrive as a notification.And some of life’s richest moments are actually possible without my cellphone.

My phone will eventually return. I look forward to those moments ardently. But, when it does, I hope our relationship will be a little healthier. I’ll still use it, appreciate it, and probably still ask it for directions when I am hopelessly lost.But maybe, I won’t feel the need to reach for it in every quiet moment.Because these past six days have reminded me that sometimes, the best connection begins with disconnecting.

the promise of Shafa’at

perhaps

inni wallahe ohiboka ya Moulaya

Fatema… Ya Fatema…

A Nidaa…

The Trials Beyond…

the spinning wheel…

karbala…

nothing to offer… but yet I stand…

it’s the little things in life that go a long way…

A Missive …

My dear and respected Students,

For a lot of years now , I have been strongly rooted in my understanding of LEADERSHIP that has only deepened my conviction: leadership without a title is available to every human being alive. And when you model this practice, you not only elevate your influence, you scale your joy.

Whether you are a teacher or a company owner , a parent or a student—you can lead. Because leadership, at its core, is simply the opposite of playing the victim . 

It’s the decision, made each day, to take responsibility for your life, your work, and the world you inhabit.

We are living through one of the most volatile, uncertain, and disorienting periods in modern memory. And that is precisely when your leadership matters most. 

Mother Teresa said it beautifully—“if everyone would only sweep their own doorstep, the whole world would be clean.”

We can wish for an easier world. Or we can wish for stronger character within ourselves. 

Every dawn is a fresh chance to take responsibility, to demonstrate creativity, to stand for excellence, and to model integrity.

When you do that consistently, without waiting for applause, you practice what is called “everyday leadership”.

Remember, you won’t become fearless by avoiding the things that frighten you. You will become fearless by doing them, over and over, until your definition of impossible quietly begins to diminish. 

Every impossible thing you attempt rewires what you believe is possible. 

So I want you to consider this. Reflect upon it. Fear is not your enemy. Fear is your friend. It is a signpost, pointing directly at your next place of growth.

No matter what you do, no matter whether you carry a title or not, use every opportunity to recognize the gifts and talents of the people around you. 

Direct the camera upon potential others haven’t yet seen in themselves. Celebrate the quiet excellence that often goes unnoticed. Because here is the beautiful paradox at the heart of greatness. When you help others rise, you do not diminish yourself. You become greater. You create something that lasts far longer than any single achievement.

Leadership is all about now. Not someday. It is this moment in time all the way to the last syllable of time

In your home, in your class, in the way you carry yourself. The world is not waiting for more titles. It is waiting for more people who have decided sincerely, firmly, to lead.

With love and respect,

Arwa

Wah…

Wah…

In every word you uttered, in each and every pause,

There was noor for every soul in lands so faraway and upon the near shores.

Wah…

We listened, but more we felt,

Each word softly shaping souls and guiding hearts towards the right

Wah…

For every pearl you revealed from the depth of the sea, it’s mesmerizing beauty certainly untold

Upon our hearts you embedded with tenderness and utmost care

Wah…

You called us to live with care and never despair,

To hold on fast to your daaman and walk with nay a fear.

Wah…

You lead every Moomin and every Moominah, and child,

Aboard your ship safe from the vehemently crashing tides of changing times.

Wah…

You took us on a journey mile by mile, and heart to heart,

Not just roads beneath our feet, but paths we walk within

From distance to closeness and from heedlessness to Deen.

Wah…

You showed us hub in each Salaam and every kalaam Each young and old,brave and meek collectively chanted

Wah… Wah, wah!

With every breath of the heart

Joilto fidaak—a thousand lives and more,

Inni wallahe ohiboka ya Moulaya,

Inni wallahe ohiboka ya Mufaddal Moula.

Husaina…

A Legacy Treasured…

With the click of the camera,
A moment is sealed
Not just on film,
But etched deep within

The corridors of their future

The arenas of their lives
As they sit around Moula (TUS),
Something greater than a photograph
Comes into being
The barakaat of which will continue forever
Into generation after generation and generations forever.
For Moula has engulfed each child within His haven so safe
Shielding each tender soul from the harms of the world
Their innocence, their promise,
Their destinies still soft as clay.
A legacy promised becomes a pact
As gentle as His nazaraat,

As lasting as His dua .
The barakaat of this single instant
Will outlive their childhoods,
Outlive their memories way beyond time

And in this brief, blessed pause in time,
He inscribes upon them
Radiance they will carry forward,
A legacy their generations will inherit
long after the shutter clicks close…

the Monument That Breathes…

In the quiet folds when the world is still and fast asleep,
She stands, an invisible monument,
Built not of stone, but of pots and pans,
Laundry baskets, lunch boxes,
and work that never ends.
The only sign she isn’t a machine
Is the soft sigh that escapes between her chores.
A statue no one ever sees,
Yet the one that holds the whole home upright—
Its pillars carved from patience, sacrifice, and resilience,
And a thousand unthanked gestures
That shimmer only when the light is kind.
And still they say, “She does nothing.”
Surprising, isn’t it!
That everything breathes because she does.
Life moves gently for everyone around her
The walls stand on kindness and love,
The ceiling is a shield of humility.
For this is her kingdom
Not a hall of marble, glass and crystal
But one of rolling pins and mismatched socks,
And whispered comfort that mends tired souls.
Her crown is a hurried knot of hair,
Her throne the kitchen counter
Where she sits listening
to the quiver and the shivers
But still… “She does nothing.”
Her royal baton is a wooden spoon
That stirs more than just food
It stirs peace and love into every pot,
Garnishing meals with her unwavering strength.
Her labour is a cascade of invisibilities
Heaps of folded clothes and brooms & dustpans,
Softened anger, calmed fears,
A thousand seams stitched back together.
Yet again… “She does nothing.”
She sails her ship through weekdays and weekends,
Through storms and rough seas,
Through school mornings and long worried evenings
The unseen captain who keeps her ship steady,
The turbulent tides she calms with her bare hands.
But one day…
When her footsteps no longer echo in the hallways
and the house exhales a strange silence,
Only then is the weight she carried felt
The tempests she quietened
Only then does the invisible monument
suddenly rise into sight
Not in stone, but in the void she leaves behind
When a woman who “did nothing”
finally rests.
And the whole house
Begins to learn to breathe …

Purple Splendour…

This is the season when The Artist Himself
With a lift of His brush creates a master piece
His palette graciously splashing purple splendour  in thousands of hues and tints and shades
Upon the lands and unto the skies
The African violets in their elegance and grace
Lavender blooms a different hue
breathing calm into the air.
The Jacarandas shimmer like lilac clouds
Dancing upon their delicate boughs
Graciously gracing the floors with their beauty
Softly, gently each petal speaks
Twilight then joins in the symphony
Casting its hues across the skies
amethyst deepening into tanzanite,
a hue that mesmerizes as it beholds
The world in quiet awe and amazement still,
Bathed in the Artist’s final, gentle thrill.
And as the stars dazzle and fill the sky
The world exhales, a soft, resplendent sigh
Each tint, each shade, each hue a quiet lullaby…

A WHISPER TO THE MORNING BREEZE…

O morning breeze, I urge thee
Journey forth to the heaven veiled
Within the tranquil expanse of Baqii
Gently caress Moulatena Fatema’s Qabr Mubarak,
And whisper gently my humble plea
To grant Her Dai the finest gift of health.

Then journey onward, O breeze divine,
The path, for His last travel Hussain chose
To fulfil the promise made in Medina Munawwarah
When only a child in age He was
With seventy-two valiant souls he led,
To embrace shahadat for our shafa’at.

Hurry to that sacred land where Fatema’s beloved rests,
Where Her Dai stands by the Zarih’s sacred lattice
His lips quiver in du‘a, His eyes veiled with tears.
Carry my ‘araz upon thy gentle wings,
My earnest plea, to be remembered
As He lowers His head upon that Mubarak earth.

Our hands we raise to the Almighty this day,
May the glory of Moula’s wishes
Become a reality for the human race to witness
And for history to record as a wonder of splendour
And may Her tears of shafa’at
Live within Her Dai, until the end of time.

Our Bundle of Abundant Joy

It feels like just yesterday…
I worried over your mummy’s little bump,
And now here you are — two months old,
Having conquered every heart,
Perched high upon your throne of love.
Ruling every soul with your gummy smile,
Melting hearts, bringing laughter and light.
You are the pivot of all our lives,
From continents close and places far.
Your gentle cooing — the sweetest music,
A tender symphony that fills our days.

Your mummy’s a strong woman, for sure —
She birthed you like the dettered warrior
I always knew she was,
And the beautiful queen she has now become,
She tends to you as though her kingdom divine.
Daddy holds you close to ease your tiny storms,
His arms your haven, his heartbeat your calm.
The twenty five minute upright window
Now the most sacred alarm of all.
Alexa also untiringly does her part
Drops her alerts whenever their needed

Daada and Daadi rush to your every call,
Their joys hooked tightly upon every giggle of yours.

Naana and Ranisaa count the days,
Yearning to cradle you and hug you close.

Tiny fingers, tiny feet
Yet such power and might they bear
to make our sunshine and our world bright
You’ve gathered us all in your orbit of joy,
Our little Husaina
Our sunshine, our love and our BUNDLE OF JOY.